Rev. Michael Mwangi.
Senior Pastor, Fedha Church KAG
• What’s running in her mind and thoughts?
• Her deep feelings.
• Her goals.
• Her expectations.
• Her dreams.
• Her fears.
• Her worries.
Women are not complicated. It’s always you who doesn’t take his time to know her. If you fail to take time to understand your wife it will take force and masculinity to run your family which is not good. Ecclesiastes 10.10 – “If the ax is dull, and one does not sharpen the edge, then he must use more strength; But wisdom brings success”. Proverbs 27.17 – “As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend”.
Did you know that there are good, God-loving couples who quarrels every time because of areas of conflicts, unsharpened rough edges will always cause discomfort?
Hosea .4.6 – “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. Because you have rejected knowledge, I also will reject you from being priest for Me; because you have forgotten the law of your God, I also will forget your children. You, therefore, need to take your time AND study the books especially the bible so you can understand how to treat your wife. Song of Songs.2.4 – “He brought me to the banqueting house, and his banner over me was love”.
5 Languages of Love
1. Words of affirmation
Always make sure you use words to affirm love towards your woman. For instance, you need to affirm of her beauty, excellence, intelligence, and hard work.
2. Gifts
They don’t have to be much but just to make her feel she has been running in your mind. Remember, she’s a priority to you.
3. Acts of service
You need to do something for your spouse that you are aware she likes such as cooking, washing utensils, picking the kids from school.
4. Quality time
This involves giving your wife undivided attention. No phones, no reading just spending time together. You may also take the time to watch TV or movies together.
5. Physical touch
This includes holding your hands together, good sex, and just touching them to show that you love them. Remember, the skin is the greatest and largest sensory organ.
Everybody has a primary language of love which speaks more deeply than all others.
Most husbands are busy serving their wives but not satisfying them. You should always provide your wife with what she needs at that specific time.
Senior Pastor, Fedha Church KAG
The best to love your wife is by upstanding and knowing her first. You can never love your wife if you’ve never taken your time to know her well. You, therefore, need to Know
• What she likes of late.• What’s running in her mind and thoughts?
• Her deep feelings.
• Her goals.
• Her expectations.
• Her dreams.
• Her fears.
• Her worries.
Women are not complicated. It’s always you who doesn’t take his time to know her. If you fail to take time to understand your wife it will take force and masculinity to run your family which is not good. Ecclesiastes 10.10 – “If the ax is dull, and one does not sharpen the edge, then he must use more strength; But wisdom brings success”. Proverbs 27.17 – “As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend”.
Did you know that there are good, God-loving couples who quarrels every time because of areas of conflicts, unsharpened rough edges will always cause discomfort?
Hosea .4.6 – “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. Because you have rejected knowledge, I also will reject you from being priest for Me; because you have forgotten the law of your God, I also will forget your children. You, therefore, need to take your time AND study the books especially the bible so you can understand how to treat your wife. Song of Songs.2.4 – “He brought me to the banqueting house, and his banner over me was love”.
5 Languages of Love
1. Words of affirmation
Always make sure you use words to affirm love towards your woman. For instance, you need to affirm of her beauty, excellence, intelligence, and hard work.
2. Gifts
They don’t have to be much but just to make her feel she has been running in your mind. Remember, she’s a priority to you.
3. Acts of service
You need to do something for your spouse that you are aware she likes such as cooking, washing utensils, picking the kids from school.
4. Quality time
This involves giving your wife undivided attention. No phones, no reading just spending time together. You may also take the time to watch TV or movies together.
5. Physical touch
This includes holding your hands together, good sex, and just touching them to show that you love them. Remember, the skin is the greatest and largest sensory organ.
Everybody has a primary language of love which speaks more deeply than all others.
Most husbands are busy serving their wives but not satisfying them. You should always provide your wife with what she needs at that specific time.
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